Okay, i know people are gonna bite my head off for asking this question. But, seriously people. I feel so depressed when i think about how Edward is perfect and i just feel really sad when i think about it.
And no offence to guys here; but most guys are absoulte twats. Why can't they be like Edward Cullen?!
Yes, i know your gonna say im crazy to be depressed over a fictional character, but i just feel so empty inside after reading it. It's one of my fav books, i don't want to stop reading it or anything.

I've read all of the Twilight books and I love them. There's only one
problem- after I finished reading the first book I began to feel really depressed and it's even worse now that I've finished the books.

After reading Twilight it feels like my life is missing something and I never realized it before- true love. I'm only 14 so I know there's plenty of time for me to find love but I know it won't even compare to the love Edward and Bella have. It makes me sad to think how great Edward is when I think about how men cheat on the people they love all of the time.

OK, I am a mom of teenagers, and I know how you can get obsessed with certain things for a period of time. But please do not translate a character from a book to your ideal romantic partner. A little fantasy is healthy, but you have to accept that it is fantasy, not reality.

And please don't spend your whole life thinking you need a relationship to complete you.... you are a whole, complete person already.
A deep loving relationship is a bonus. Some people find such relationships and enjoy them for many years. Other people never find good relationships and suffer miserably searching. That is a choice they make. I hope you will choose to be complete as an individual and view a romance as a bonus gift in your life.

i have read the whole Series as well, and find Stephenie Mayer's character easy to fall in love with, but all the same, they are fictional characters.
i believe, once you fall in love with someone, well they become your edward cullen.
i have a boyfriend of a year and 6 months, and when i imagine edward it is my boyfriend who pops in my head.

also, don't look past guys cause there not edward... there aren't many guys who could fill the shoes edward does, he is fictional.

this is what i say to my friend about love ( she's 14 to)

Your 14 years old, you have better things to concentrate on , like your education.
at this age a girl should be concentrating on her education, and looking after her body.
once your older, and you have a great job, because you worked on your learning's, you can make some great money, find the love of your life, whom will love you for who you are, you'll have the time to start a great family.

I feel just like that too. I'm only up to the 2nd book but when i stop reading it for a moment i feel depressed and think well why do't i have a guy like that for me n my life. but all you can really do is just start making friends meeting people and one day you will find your 'Edward Cullen'.
Hope I helped :)

Sorry this is not a way to make you feel better. But it's just ...
My friend also said the same thing ! She was like so not preppy and happy . I mean she was but ya know ? H-Ha-Ha ! Forgive me for laughing. Sorry can't help but say :: Try do something different. Like watching your fave series, again !

x

everyones been here, too obsessed with one thing. the best thing to do is start thinking of things that make him not perfect. the best thing is time, eventually you'll find something new too obsess over.

and one day youll meet a fantastic guy and youll wonder

edward who?

Edward Cullen is a character in a tory, you'll find someone who loves you, just wait!

This is one of the reasons I despise Twilight. It has created that feeling you are experiencing in many other readers. It's just over-the-top.

Twilight might seem like a magically delicious story about love but I think it is a bit much. Love is the most powerful force that exists on earth but by love, I'm not talking about romantic love. That type of love will come in its own time. You don't need to search for it because it will come to you. You are young! Just be patient.

Edward Cullen is perfection in every girl's imagination. I think that is his weakness because perfection doesn't exist. Don't compare guys to Cullen because it won't work. All humans are imperfect and that is what makes each of us unique. Learn to love that.

Me too .... i totally feel the same way how you girls do !!
I am going to be 20 and all these years i have ever felt depressed and cried allot for some one who can care about like that !!

and Edward is like a dream boy for me and off-course for all girls who want true love !!

i use to wish why can't a guy really be truthful and love from heart !!

and i still do get depressed allot ......... hope i should wait for a while to get some one like that .....

and yea please stop reading that book just for a while you to be fine !!

will pray you to get a perfect guy for life same like Edward Cullen !!

All the best girl !!

Ok, I've read Twilight and it is an amazing book...but thats all it is! It's not supposed to be real and yeah, you can dream that you'll find something as perfect as their relationship and it might not happen but you probably will find a relationship that makes you happy and is as near perfect as you could get, its not impossible! you'll forget the books in time, maybe just skip seeing the next films and don't be reading the books over and over or anything like that! You're only 14 so don't be worrying about things that won't be happening for a while, just enjoy being the maturity you are and stop thinking about things like that! Iwouldn't say you're depressed, just really obsessed with the book! Good Luck!